Hi [B]ICQ_f0r3v3r[/B], welcome to CDFreaks!
The lagging might be because your DVD drive is operating in PIO mode instead of DMA mode. Try looking in this thread:
Troubleshooting: Enabling/Checking DMA in Windows Vista, XP, 2000, Me, 9x
When you say that the notebook is loud, do you mean that the disc and drive is making a lot of noise due to spinning fast or perhaps seeking back and forth for the files to install?