As stated above I have been using the following
optodisc dvd-r 1x media (50 dvd's for 92.00 canadian)
NERO to burn
toshiba sd-3800 standalone player to play
Now I took the optodisc backups I made and copied the files back over to the hard drive.
Then stuck in a Verbatim Dvd-r x2 disc and burned the exact data that was on the optodisc media (the media that pauses in my Toshiba sd 3800 standalone)
I have done this with 3 discs so far and I have watched the entire movie NO SKIPS / PAUSING!
I must say the optodiscs are fine for computer use but the TOSHIBA SD-3800 doesnt like them.
now on to the task of re-burning the remaining 16 optodisc'S