Unless your motherboard have onboard scsi controller, you can enable it motherboard bios. The boot " boot other device" is only if you want to boot from your scsi. You probably will have a pci scsi controller in a pci slot.
This card will detect all scsi devices conneted to it. Windows must have a driver for this scsi controller before windows can detect dvices plugged to the controller. Windows seems to detect an LSI Logic 53C810 Device as your scsi contoller, but is the controller working correct. If there a yellow mark, the drivers are wrong.
Try to remove the LSI Logic 53C810 Device in the device manager and reboot.
I can't find this LSI Logic 53C810 Device from LSI homepage.