Thanks for all your help.
I used DVD Decrypter first then DVD shrink which also burnt the disc too and i'm very happy with the result!! I have everything now, the menus, special features, commentary's and the movie itself which is exactly what i wanted and was trying to say in my original post! hehe
In the past i used DVD decrypter then tried to use nero but could only ever just get the movie itself to fit.
DVD shrink is excellent so thanks for the pointer!!
Thanks again for all your help. 1st post on here and problems sorted. Great stuff!!!