Nero Vision 5 disc settings

Hi

I am using Nero Vision 5 convert AVI to DVD files. It works fine but I do not like the way the menus behave. I have a video, I would like the title page to be displayed when the disc is inserted. I would like the play button to then begin to play the movie, I would like the menu button to display the chapter menu. Anyone know the proper settings to achieve this? I have been toying with linkage, first play item, title menu and end actions and I cannot seem to get the desired result. Thanks for any insight.