Thanks guys, well, I got it to work anyway, what I did was I made an "on the fly" copy using WinOnCD, but the catch was, LUCKILY, and I say LUCKILY, it failed to write the second session, so I ended up with just the first, the one I wanted.
Just for posterity, the reason this happened was because I didn't set CDRwin to "import previous session", so it figured it was writing to a blank disc, so it found the first clear spot and plopped the data there, then never referenced the first session at all. (it's my belief that when you add a session, a totally new TOC is written, and the old one is voided somehow) Thus, it wrote the new TOC with only the second session's cuepoints.
Oh, one other last note for posterity, I've done this before, however I didn't know it was a problem, I didn't have it import the session, and added data after a music cd, this seemed to work fine, the music played in the cd player, and the files showed up on the computer, however, I can't play the AUDIO on a PC because it's in the first session.
love to all, happy burning.