OK, two things you can try
In Daemon Tools, go into the settings, and look for an option called “Hide CDR media” (or similar) - disable it. Also disable “Safedisc Emulation”.
In Alcohol, go to Settings -> Emulation, and find an option called “Ignore Media Type” - disable/uncheck that.
Hopefully one of the two should help.
If not, then better media, i.e. Verbatim, may be the way to go