Well thanks for the information.
I believe that the problem is that the on board SATA controller doesn’t work with ODD’s (OpticalDiscDrives).
Things you can try.
Check the bios & make sure the SATA controller isn’t set to RAID.
If using the nVidia drivers for your board.
Uninstall & try the Microsoft ones.
If no luck, you might have to either return the drive (if that’s an option open to you).
Get an IDE version.
Alternatively get a PCI SATA controller card.
If you do this, just make sure the card is based on SiliconImage chipset.