What do you mean by the extra step?
My set up is as following.
Windows server with Mezzmo Media server installed.
All movies are stored here.
The media server is accessed using the playstation in the bedroom.
The playstation does not show the .ifo file only the .vob files.
I backup the DVD using Dvdnextcopy.
Selected automatic full.
copy the directory to the media server.
Then using the playstation to view the movie.
The playstation will show the .vob files.
Select the first one and watch in english.
The second or third will be in spanish.
Then the rest in english again.
Its like one of them will be in spanish.