I do understand your point, but I hope you do also understand mine.
I got involved with this forum because I enjoy helping people and, up to a point, I am able to do so. But, I do expect people to put in a little effort of their own, rather than to post questions because they don’t feel like looking for an answer themselves.
In this respect I can tell you that if you had phrased your questions differently, showing you had put in a little effort of your own, I would not have responded they way I did (as you put it, slighlty flaming).
We have a few useful posts at the top of the newbie forum that can help you in finding questions to your answers. Not only a simple referral to our search function, but also a link to a writing guide for newbies.
I have been around for quite some time and I think that I have always been fair in my decisions. I may not always appear to be the most polite, but I believe in helping people help themselves, which means I have to refer them to the search function a lot.
A wise man once said:
If I feed the hungry, they have food for a day.
If I teach them to grow their own, they have food for life.
As to your first question, there is a standard writing program from Roxio in Windows XP which you can disable (perhaps even, should disable). This is a cause of many errors when using different writing programs. How to do this can, again, be found through our search.
As to your second question, I have InCD installed, but I’ve never used it…