I am sitting here with blank dvd’s wanting to copy movies BUT I CAN’T!!! can someone out there tell me how to fool my computer into letting me buner my blanks??? 
Download AnyDVD, and CloneDVD . You need one program to do backups of your own DVDs and another to recode your files to fit on a DVD. Also there is a good guide here:
http://club.cdfreaks.com/f72/clonedvd-anydvd-guide-madbob-72022/
Yes, AnyDVD and CloneDVD will do the trick, good luck!