Are we having a self-indulgent time? Good I love it, a bit of self-indulgence and self-pity can do you the world of good you can’t stay happy all of the time it’s just not natural, just know where to draw the line. Why do you think sad songs are so popular?
My entire family as I have been disowned. My father even tried of getting out of helping me move even though he promised to do it, the only reason he gave in was because I said “Think about it help me move and I am gone for good” he couldn’t start the luton fast enough. Hey that’s life.
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Now off on a completely different tnagent, I have noticed there does seem to be a difference between the genders about the whole down and dirty thing. In general women seem to need an emotion involved in it where as men don’t. Which ties in with gregs’ comment, after all the act is purely physiological, it has no emotions involved.
We are a social animal, which means we are going to get hurt at one time or another pure and simple. There is nothing that can be done to stop it happening, except wazzy’s suggestion of living in a hole.
I have a three strikes and you’re out rule, this applies to trust and respect after all both are needed in any relationship and friendships are relationships. The only time this doesn’t apply is if it is something major then it’s bye-bye for good.
As I say just know where to draw the line and move on. You don’t want to go down the road I travelled for a while, it’s not pretty.
Becuase if you bobbited him you would be in prison. Who would look after pusskits then? They would miss their mummy. Pusskits are great when you’re feeling down 
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Just thought about that a bit in the past cause everyone always goes on about cheating etc etc.