[QUOTE=alan1476;2039303]Believe me I have asked the people that have been marriend 20+ years and you wouldn’t want to hear their response. If no kids are in the future, I say stay single, its much cheaper if it doesnt work out, take it from one who knows.[/QUOTE]
My parents have been together for 30 years. My mom told me a few years ago that if it weren’t for the kids (me & sibs) she would have left my dad a LONG time ago. LOL.
I know 4 under 30 couples that were married. They are all now divorced/separated. They went to marriage counseling for a few months and decided to part ways.
I’m not necessarily opposed to marriage, but I just don’t get why some people (usually women) need the symbolic gesture performed in front of family and friends.
Marriage just seems forever…lol. I don’t know what I’m gonna want for dinner years from now. There are a lot of things I want to do before I settle down. I want to travel some more and have a 3-some (M-F-F). LOL
Seriously though, why fix something that ain’t broken. Leave marriage out of the equation and everyone will be happier.