and do you still have their keys?
Can they visit you at any given time and vice versa?
That's a funny story actually
I always had the assumption that we would respect each others privacy, so i thought there would be no issues whatsoever about that. I will always call them before i plan a visit and they'd call me. At least, i thought they did as well.
In the past they did come up unannounced. They'd call on their mobile phone that they were driving towards me and i would have about 10 minutes to clean up the entire house. (My mom is a kinda cleaning freak).
One sunday i decided to grab a few of my favorite movies and light a few joints to have a relaxed day on the couch. All went well and stoned Then the front door suddenly opened and my parents came in.. They didn't even knew i smoke, so they were kinda very surprised and angry.
(Angry and surprised mom): "I didn't know you did drugs!"
Me (casually and still stoned): "I didn't know you wouldn't respect my privacy, especially in my own goddamned house."
And that was the end of discussion. Since then they call every single time before they even plan to visit