Thanks for the replies guys, I've figured it's a video issue now. I know my ram is weak but it's relatively new and from a good company. I am also not one to shout names but Crucial seem pretty respectable. Kahlon.. never heard of them. Seem pretty professional.
PC starts, runs and defrags pretty well considering.. but it does run SC4 at 80% cpu(before+after update).
Sadly SC4 update doesn't really affect graphics(exept open GL), it's all in small code. Re-routing traffic and re-scripting over bugs was of highest importance. Do EA ever finish a game before they release it?
I found that most flash games work, but framerate drops (and some lag) in youtube. I tried a dvd and got same results with WMP, VLC.
Graphics card(high end for it's day) is inserted right, updated, setup proper..
This problem seems to be the pc, not the game. Regarding my specs, should youtube even work?