Direct vobsub and bsplayer

i have a folder where i keep subs files i forget to put on the cd along with the movie, so i set direct vobsub to search that folder for the right subs when i play a movie.
the problem is that it will work with bsplayer only if the subs are in the same dir as the movie… ok, fine, at least it works, right? no, wrong, because D.V.S. WILL work if i open the movie with media player classic.
i’m a bit p|§§ed about it, so if anybody could help…