In TCP, it is the responsibility of the "sender" to make sure that your packet is received and understood, ergo, it is the responsibility of the poster to write in such a way that the reader, ANY reader, can understand what message you are trying to convey. I have no idea what you are trying to convey other than you are frustrated but don't have the ability to articulate it.
Today is my first time on the new software and I find it quite different but I am going to try and articulate what I don't like and see if modifications can be made and being a long time member, but a minimal contributor, I shall hang around and try to put my view forward. I shall also do it without throwing all my toys out of the bassinet and storming off in a hissy fit.
Dom, appreciate what you are doing and trying to achieve. I hope I can be of assistance in some small way.