It's the free HD decrypter software 126.96.36.199.
Amazingly it is still in processing of backing up the dvd. It was going slow for a while, but ever since it got to 78% [the last dvd section] its been going painfully slow. I'll leave my computer on as long as I need to so I don't really care how long it takes, as long as it finishes.
I did check the vob files it created, and it actually successfully got the first 3 of 4 sections of the dvd perfectly fine.
We'll see if it get's this last one, whether I have to leave the computer on for a week or not