well I have done that and the dma is on. it is close to what I am looking for but just not quite it. The part that to that link that you gave me that said Run REGEDIT.
Go to the following key:
It has subkeys like 0000, 0001, 0002, etc. Normally 0001 is the primary IDE channel, 0002 the secondary, but other numbers can occur under certain circumstances. You have to go through these subkeys and check the DriverDesc value until you find the proper IDE channel.
Is really really close to what I am looking for but it says to add. and something about resetting on succesful burn.
But thanks for that link getting useful info!!