Burn Speed Trouble

I have a “Lite-On SOHW-802S DVD+RW/CD Writer” in my hp. It came with the tower. There seems to be no control over the speed that I burn my discs. I have set the properties, made adjustments in my software and it continues to burn at the same speed…very fast. I always get read problems when I burn to quickly so I prefer burning at a slower speed but it will not let me change a thing…any suggestions?

what software?