Finding and maintaining a happy marriage among your burner, write strategy, blank media and multiple players isn't always easy. As you've discovered, what works in one player frequently acts up or fails completely in another.
First off, I would ask what media you're using? and how fast are you burning?
If you could post the MID (media code) it would help.
You can obtain this with Nero CD-DVD Speed (just click on the link in my sig if you don't have it).
Not knowing much else at this point, recommend you try Verbatim or Taiyo Yuden media. If using +R media, be certain to bitset to DVD-ROM.
You also may want to try using +RW media (no coasters and see if changing the booktype helps).
Hope this helps.