When you are completing your project in NeroVision 4 (adding video files, clicking on next, etc.), you will eventually get to the “Select Menu” screen. On the bottom is a button entiled “More” which really takes to Advanced Options but they call it “More”. Near the bottom is an option that says “When Finished Playing Title”, you have three choics: 1). Play Next Title 2). Jump to Menu or 3). Loop Title.
The default setting is Play Next Title. Change it to whatever you want. If you saved you project (as opposed to just the burned DVD), you can double-click on the project and navigate to the “Select menu” option. Change the feature you want and reburn.
I think this will get you squared away.